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Are you working at a job you can&#8217;t stand?  Would you like to quit, but are afraid you&#8217;ll attract more of the same? Often people write to me with questions like: I want out of my present job so badly. How can I speed things up so I can quit?
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<p>Are you working at a job you can&#8217;t stand?  Would you like to quit, but are afraid you&#8217;ll attract more of the same? Often people write to me with questions like: I want out of my present job so badly. How can I speed things up so I can quit?</p>
<p>The best way to shorten the time spent in a negative situation is to focus on all the positives you can. If you can find something to appreciate&#8211;even if its appreciating a regular paycheck which does cover some of your essentials&#8211;you will begin to feel <a class="zem_slink" title="seo better" rel="blog" href="http://www.seobetter.com">better</a>. As you feel better, you&#8217;ll find it easier to notice another thing you appreciate about your job.</p>
<p>What if you can’t find a single positive aspect of your present job? If you don&#8217;t change the way you feel about your current job, you will simply attract another miserable job.</p>
<p>&#8220;Sometimes it&#8217;s easier to act your self into a new way of thinking,<br />
than it is to think your self into a new way of <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/acting" title="Acting" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acting">acting</a>.&#8221;<br />
-Jo Berry, <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/author" title="Author" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Author">author</a><br />
Years ago, in Los <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/actor" title="Actor" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Actor">Angeles</a>, <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/los_angeles" title="Los Angeles" rel="geolocation" href="http://maps.google.com/maps?ll=34.05,-118.25&amp;spn=0.1,0.1&amp;q=34.05,-118.25%20%28Los%20Angeles%29&amp;t=h">California</a>, I heard Jo Berry speak about how to get rid of a bad habit. Jo asked her audience, &#8220;How long have you thought about giving up this habit?  Has it done any good to just think about it?&#8221;</p>
<p>At the time, I had thought and thought about quitting smoking. No matter how much I thought about quitting, I had not made it through one day in over ten years without a <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/cigarette" title="Cigarette" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cigarette">cigarette</a>. (Now, through understanding how the <a class="zem_slink freebase/en/law_of_attraction" title="Law of Attraction" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_Attraction">Law of Attraction</a> works, I can see that by &#8220;pushing against&#8221; a habit, I was reinforcing it.)</p>
<p>Jo told us that if we started to act like what we wanted to be or do, then our thoughts and feelings would follow. In the flash of a moment, I understood that I could quit smoking by acting like a <a class="zem_slink freebase/guid/9202a8c04000641f8000000005ae6076" title="Smoking" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Smoking">non-smoker</a>. Of course the next question was, &#8220;How does a non-smoker act?&#8221; Quickly followed by, &#8220;What does a non-smoker do with their hands?&#8221; The answer came ever so gently: &#8220;They fold their hands.&#8221; I figured that folding my hands when I wanted a cigarette was symbolic as well as appropriate!  And it worked. I haven&#8217;t had or wanted a cigarette since Sept. 13th, 1976.</p>
<p>Instead of trying to change the way you think about your job, begin to get a picture of yourself acting like you enjoy this job.  What would you say or do differently?  Try acting in a new way then notice how much better you feel.</p>
<p>Soon you&#8217;ll find yourself in a more positive feeling place, offering a new vibration which will either attract different situations in your current job or you’ll find yourself working in a new place that feels great! Who knows, you may end up Loving your current job!</p>
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